5 Mistakes Women Make Way Too Often In Relationships And you don’t even realize you’re doing it.

Sunday April 1, 2018

Some say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again while expecting different results. When it comes to relationships, we either learn from them or we make the same mistakes repeatedly. As a psychotherapist with over a decade of experience, I have come to observe the mistakes women make over and over again that set them back from having the relationship that they desire in their life, and may even lead to unhealthy relationships. Here are the top 5 mistakes:

1 Using the silent treatment. When we use the silent treatment to punish our partners, it can send a message that they don’t matter, we don’t care about how they feel, and we are only interested in hearing what we want to hear.

2 Not asking for what she wants in bed. For many women, their sexual life is only to seduce and please their partner. This will eventually lead to dissatisfaction and not wanting to initiate sex with your partner. He will eventually feel the rejection from you and become dissatisfied himself. Asking for what you want and communicating with your partner will make it an enjoyable experience for the both of you. Don’t worry about hurting his feelings, he would rather know how to please you especially if you deliver the message in a loving way.

3 Trying to change her partner. The very things which we once loved or things that we did not pay much attention to in the beginning of the relationship can eventually become something that bothers usand make us wish that they would change. So we use manipulation to try to match the image that we have in our head of who our partner “should be” in the relationship.

4 Believing her partner should read her mind and know what she wants without communicating clearly.

5 Believing it’s her partner’s job to make her happy. Sometimes, we get into a relationship thinking that we will be happier or that the other person should make us happy. The greater the distance between expectations and reality, the greater the disappointment. We have to begin the relationship already happy and content with ourselves, and our partners can compliment us and contribute to our happiness Once we understand how our thinking can lead to making major mistakes in relationships that create an unhealthy dynamic, we have the power to change our negative behaviors. We have the power to make decisions and choices that can lead us down the road to happy and healthy relationships.

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